January 09, 2022
I like him, but I don't know if he also likes me. What should I do?
Men are not like women. When they like you, you know it. And if he kinda knows that you like him, then you will know it for sure. If you’re still wondering whether they like you, it means that they don’t like you enough.
I like her, but I don't know if she also likes me. What should I do?
It’s true that some women appreciate being conquered, but most of them if they like you, you’ll know. If you’re wondering what more to do for conquering her, my advice is, find a girl who likes you. If you’re still in question, then flirt. Flirting is an entire exhilarating love experience by itself. It’s intuitive, hilarious, nerve wrecking, exciting, may raise you to your limits, and it answers your love questions. If you flirt and she’s not flirting you--seriously--move on. She’s not for you. If she's addressing you directly by her own initiative like all the time, then she likes you lad, no matter what she says! ;)
[Obviously, No is a No.]
I hate school, I don’t like anything there. What will become of me?
It’s true that most intelligent students cannot be accustomed to the boring school. It’s also true that some prefer working with their hands. If you keep on hating school stuff at graduation year, do something completely different. Follow your guts. Make Your Own Mind. [Read entire article]'
Everybody tells us to be unique, but also, everybody tells us to conform. What should one do?
It’s true that an unwise society like ours is full with opposite directives. That’s coz they know not how the world works. Unique people, change our world all the time. Fully conformed people, bore our world all the time. You should ask yourself who’s asking you to conform, and what do they have to gain from your conformity. Most parents want you conformed, to control you. But if you’re fully controlled, you never develop your individuality and you never become something interesting. Thus: Make Your Own Mind. Literally, and about everything.
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Why are so many people so filthy liars? Was it always like this?
No, it never is ‘always like this’. The world and societies change all the time. That’s why we have so many different historical eras. If you hate lies then lie not. And teach all your friends not to lie.
What’s all this buzz with politics and stuff that my parents are so obsessed with? Does it worth my attention? I really don’t wanna have political fights like them.
Politics are a never ending debate amongst us. And that’s good, coz thanks in Democracy we choose our leaders. The problem arises with whoever wants to be our leader. They fanatize lots of people, just to get their votes. They really try to find our soft spots and ignite us. I choose facts over their false interpretations of reality. Not what they say before the elections, but what they do after the elections. Not what they say they did, what I actually remember them doing. Or not doing. And with this growing political experience we all learn to become better and better voters. If you want no political fights, then never be a fanatic and always listen at both sides. Trust me, both sides have fair arguments. Then make your own mind, and let everyone else make their own minds also. The majority wins. No need to fight.
I really like this guy, he’s like totally unique for me, but I’ve already told him some pretty nasty stuff. How can I do a kind of comeback? Several years later I really do miss him, I just can’t stop thinking about him and the fun we had when we were together.
If you already find him unique, then do NOT let him go. Very rarely we encounter people who we perceive as unique, and it’s never of a coincidence. If you’re more than 25, you know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s extremely rare. That's why years later, you just can't stop thinking about him. If he also finds you unique, then oh boy these are the perfect ingredients for an exhilarating love relationship! Worthy relationships are all about worthy comebacks. But, don't forget that if you told him nasty stuff, he cannot do a comeback. Just take back the nasty stuff you said and see where that goes. Since you were already together, I bet that you know exactly how to attract him once more. Right? When there’s mutual attraction everything is easy, no matter the obstacles. Just don’t think about it only, act. Otherwise you’ll keep on comparing him with whoever you meet, and they’ll keep on falling short in comparison. No risk, no gain.
I like Art but it doesn’t pay back. What should I do for a living?
Create Art which also creates an audience, thus financial gains. If you’re an uncompromised artist, then that’s your choice. One day I hope that you’ll illuminate us all.
Even if I’m gay, I seem to mostly like straights. Is there a way to attract them?
If they’re straight, no. There’s no way. It’s true though that many gay people are secretly in love with straights. But if you wanna my opinion, this is extremely unpractical. It mathematically leads into your disappointment. You’ll never have them. Seriously, find gay people who attract you.
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